Tempting You to Stay. It's a reaction that's both good and bad: Your boss values you so much that he or she offers you a raise or promotion to stay. But it can leave you feeling conflicted: You have another great job lined up__but now that there's more money on the table, do you really want to leave your current position?
On the flip side, if you loved your job, your coworkers, your boss, the cappuccino machine, everything about the place, don't write page upon page waxing rhapsodic about all that you're giving up by leaving. A brief, heartfelt compliment to the company, or a thank you, is fine.