Prepare for It. This one is easy. All you have to do is smile and say "Thank you so much for your support. I've enjoyed my time here and I've learned a lot from you. Let me know what I can do to make the transition easier." Are you always going to get reaction number five? Probably not. But if you look for the signs, you can likely anticipate your boss' response, go into the conversation prepared, and come out stronger on the other side. Then, you can breathe a sign of relief and start looking forward to starting your new position.
State Your Intent. The whole theme of your resignation letter is the statement that, well, you resign. You don't need to play coy__the time has passed for you to fish around for a counteroffer if it's gotten this far. At this point, you've made your decision to leave, and this letter needs to reflect that.